/kama/ - Kāmavāsanā

How can I bring up the idea of trying anal sex with my girlfriend? We've been having a great time together, and I'm really interested in exploring something new.

Do you think giving her some nice gifts might help?

>>1480(OP)

do not go directly on the topic of anal sex.

few methods which i learnt

1. while licking her pussy rub around her ass witch gentle stroke of finger

2. while licking her go down to lick asshole by spreading her cheeks. make sure she is fully aroused before doing that.

3. you can start fingering her asshole once she became receptive towords playing with that hole.

4. watch threesome porn togather where pornstar is doing DP. make comment on praising her. like wow. look at her ass. i am sure she is feeling dual pleasure.

5. use sex toys. (we used cucumber)

6. ask her about anal sex jokingly. don't make it like you really need this. behave like you don't care but it will be nice.

7. give her at least one orgasam while playing with that hole. be it with your finger or you or tongue. and make her realise that that hole can also be used for pleasure.

now actual tricks to make it easy for her. our body have anal reflex just like gag reflex. anything trying to go in ass will trigger that response and she will clinch her asshole close. she needs to relax that asshole by pushing down. (what we do while pooping). and when she push down that time you have to insert. if you try to insert when asshole is clinched it will be painful.

use lot of lube.

and obviously wash it thoroughly. drink lot of water before that.

all this has to be done slowly slowly. you can't rush in few days.

and ofcourse i was able to do that because my gf is kinky. that's why there may be bias. but not every girl is ready for this.