She's right you know
gnY6Yg
No.360773
A man who hide all assets to avoid alimony is a MASSIVE red flag. Read this educational post.
Finance, Career and Edu
I saw a post yesterday about men transferring all their assets to their moms, putting property in their parents’ names, paying EMIs for houses they don’t legally own, and then showing up to arranged marriage meetings with literally nothing on paper. And of course a quarter of the comments were full of ppl saying “It’s his money, he can protect it” or “He’s just being smart" as if this situation affects no one but him.
All these people live in their unique world of stupidity and don't know shit about why the concept of alimony or financial security exists in so many countries. They really don’t understand how much this impacts the woman who marries him. I'm actually surprised because just 1 person pointed this out in that comments section and she was downvoted by misogynists.
There's just so many misinformation out here and I wanted to make sure women are aware of the reality, hence this post.
See, when a man has deliberately arranged his finances so that he legally owns nothing, the woman ends up entering a marriage where she has zero financial security. She may relocate for the marriage, adjust her career, take on childcare, or handle the bulk of domestic responsibility, and all those things reduce her earning potential and long-term savings. Meanwhile the man is fully insulated, nothing is at risk for him because everything is in his parents’ names.
In day to day life, this means he might not even have independent access to money. He will not be able to contribute meaningfully to shared expenses because the assets and even the financial decision-making are controlled by his parents. And when parents control everything, the woman is effectively marrying into a system where she has no say in financial decisions that directly affect her life. She ends up doing the actual labor of marriage while the benefits and property legally belong to someone else. This makes the man a gold digger and a scammer.
Ppl also forget that if something goes wrong, whether it’s a separation, a medical emergency, or even the husband’s death, the woman gets nothing. She has no legal claim to property she lived in, invested in emotionally, or contributed to financially. She can spend years building a life with someone and still have absolutely NO protection or stability because everything is tied to his parents. Screams cheating right?
A woman agreeing to share her life, her time, her body, and her future with someone deserves a partner who isn’t hiding behind loopholes or imaginary/irrational fears of unfair alimony. She deserves someone willing to show he can actually stand on his own two feet and take responsibility for his own life. After all, men call themselves providers don't they?
Also, if you get divorced in the future, you might have to pay alimony to the man because the guy is poor on paper. Courts generally look at the husband’s actual earnings, savings, and property he legally owns when deciding alimony. Money or property in parents’ names is not considered his, unless he can prove he had control over it.
So no, it’s not smart or protective when a man hides everything under his parents' names. It creates a completely lopsided situation where the woman carries all the risk and he carries none. Women aren’t rejecting these men because they want to take their money. They’re rejecting them because they’re being asked to enter a marriage with someone who has deliberately made sure they will have no safety, no stability, and no shared future in any legal or practical sense.
I hope both men and women understand this reality.
Edit: I'm being heavily downvoted by men. But thanks for the awards, kind strangers. This is my first award. You're awesome.
b/s9L5
No.360776
maa chuda
lp1GRL
No.360777
i can bet 1 btc that the women behind this post is fat and mentally ill. just like the incels here.
gnY6Yg
No.360779
kGLEEQ
No.360780
Gobar ki smell aane lagi yaar
lz27VE
No.360782
Not reading all that
x0SSVi
No.360783
>>360773(OP)
Retarded woman thinks that wives would have to pay alimony kekew.
Alimony is robbery. Only child support is justified, and that too in some cases.
x0SSVi
No.360785
feGgMA
No.360791
>>360773(OP)
Logically, she is right, but you can't blame the men either due to the judicial system in india
PVeeJb
No.360792
>>360773(OP)
She's right tbh. Why even marry if you don't trust her
mdVk1u
No.360794
>>360792
Because trust can be broken ? Are you retarded?
mdVk1u
No.360796
>>360773(OP)
Tldr?
2QTN9c
No.360797
>>360773(OP)
tldr don't gib qrd cuz not interested
PVeeJb
No.360798
>>360794
Well you if you doubt her, do you really trust her? And if you don't trust her, you don't love her either.
So in a way, you're marrying her not for love but for your own convenience
lIAHbG
No.360799
mdVk1u
No.360804
>>360798
If she doubt her man then does she really lover her? If she doesn't love her why marry him? If men creating a safety net for them is a red flag to her then shes only showing whats shes hiding inside her.
b/s9L5
No.360807
>>360780
kek
0/joop
No.360809
>>360773(OP)
sariya treatment was invented for randis like her
PVeeJb
No.360813
>>360804
She won't doubt you if you won't act red flaggy. Men stingy with money are always bitter tbh
fluOiE
No.360822
>>360773(OP)
What happened to that anon's cousin who got rejected because the foid family was expecting them to have sorted out land property
mdVk1u
No.360823
>>360813
Considering reating a safety net as red flag is much bigger red flag. You are basically saying i wish you have things on your name so i could take them when i want
0/joop
No.360831
>>360823
Will that randi provide proof of her being clean and pure? No! Right! Then why should man bear all the burden.
PVeeJb
No.360832
>>360823
Stop being so money minded lol. If you keep thinking like this no woman will choose you
2QTN9c
No.360836
>>360799
all men should learn how to deal with feminist women in current era
mdVk1u
No.360843
>>360832
Lol no. Pajeet chahe jitne bluepille bhangis ho, atleast ek matter ko toh seriously lete hai. Good.
4cj6oP
No.360878
Based be the men who do this.
4cj6oP
No.360881
>>360783
I wish every female thought like you.
x0SSVi
No.360883
>>360836
GIWTWM
