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yDLZJo
No.126148
Went to dinner with my father, mother, brother, uncle, and aunt. My father is strictly against alcohol. My uncle ordered one beer for himself and my aunt ordered one cocktail for herself.
My uncle poured beer in his glass from a can, and the can was left with like 25mL of beer or something. He asked me if I want to try, I asked him if that would make me drunk or something, since I know nothing about alcohol he said that alcohol is like 0.5% or something in this. My aunt also asked me if I want a sip, like that too was like 25mL or something. So I figured that 0.5% of 50ml is unlikely to cause any damage or anything.
I also thought it would be kind of not nice to deny given they were paying the bill and they explained it to me so nicely. And both my uncle and aunt are smart and intelligent individuals. Like people that I can trust.
I drank like 50 mL of it. Like 3 spoons or something in total. Didn't think it was a big deal. My father freaked out. Told my mother "Dekh tera beta kya kar Raha hai" and ya know told my brother that I am a "nalayak" and I will turn out to be some kind of criminal or a bad individual.
I didn't think and still don't think that it was as big of a deal given that I am not interested in drinking and nor do I have any money to do so.
But my father, by now you could've painted a picture of him, is now talking to me rudely and ignoring me. In the hindsight it was a bad decision to not say "No" to it cause I am probably going to become a NEET in the future my degree ain't worth much.
Me and my father also haven't talked much since we came back from dinner. Don't know what to do now. Feeling like I dropped an axe on my feet intentionally.
Prh/T7
No.126157
Lmao pajaat drinking right infront of your parents, how retarded could you possibly be
M5Qtp+
No.126166
People just want a reason to be mad at somebody and exercise their frustrations. Tell your mom to suck your dads dick daily and keep his nuts dry and maybe he wont be such a loser biotch
siCw4c
No.126167
>>126148(OP)
I've drunk with my father. My father gave some alcohol to taste when I was like 17 kek. If I do it in front of mother, I'm dead though.
yDLZJo
No.126169
>>126167
The thing is I am not interested in drinking and I fear that I am going to become addicted. It's just that I thought saying no to someone who is by all means a trusted adult would be rude. And I thought that he wouldn't give a shit about 3 spoons worth of alcohol. I miscalculated to hell and back.
eD54v/
No.126179
>>126148(OP)
Why are pajeet parents such sissy and controlling yaar? Your uncle is absolutely right 50ml isn't shit, this issue is so small that it shouldn't be an issue at all. Tu pure 2 glass bhi peele tha beer ke toh bhi tujhe nahi chadti. 50ml toh main thookta hun yaar.
Yaar aise maa baap ki aulaad do hi tarah ki hoti hai ya toh voh submissive ban jaati hai ya bilkul hi rebellious. Meri 2 cousins hain, dono ke maa baap bohot strict, ek bichari itni submissive ban chuki hai ki usse apni moustache bhi shave nahi karti kyunki papa kahenge ki saj dhaj rahi hai iska matlab ye ladkon si milna chahti hai. Normal sized skirt pehne ne ki bhi choot nahi hai usse, vo kabhi light colour ke kapde bhi nahi pehnti ye soch ke ki usse agar paseena ayega kitchen mein kaam karte hue toh kuch dikh na jaye.
Jo dusri hai voh itni rebellious ban chucki hai ki, usne job lagte hi ghar chor diya, har roz peeti hai unhealthy amounts mein, smoke bhi karti hai, hookups bhi karti hai, gardan pe tattoo bhi banwa liya. Textbook (edi) hai. Ab uska baap, mera mausa, mujhe yun keh raha tha ki pata nahi meri beti aisi kaisi nikal gayi.
Jab tu usse maarega, azaadi nahi dega, uske man pasand ke kapde nahi pehne dega, usse kitchen mein daba kar rakhega toh woh rebellious toh banegi hi ya phir vo dusri ladki ki tarah submissive ban jaye. Mere mausa nein usse public mein thappad maar diya mall ke beech mein shorts pehn ne par, ab agar voh usse tameez se samjhata kehta beta koi baat nahi ab dubara mat karna aisa XYZ reasons ke liye nahi karna chahiye toh usse lagta ki mere maa baap meri care karte hain mujhe control nahi.
Sala bacche paida karliye hain, unhe alag insaan nahi maante, lekin apne control mein rakhne hain 24 ghante, khao bhi unki pasand se, utho bhi unki pasand se, padho bhi unki pasand se, shaadi bhi karo unki pasand se, bhyi aise kaam nahi chalega.
Aisa chalta raha toh jitne bhi sapne dekhe hain Hindu Rashtra aur traditionalism ke saare toot jayenge.
siCw4c
No.126183
>>126169
Just wait a bit, say sorry. Situation will cool down, it's not the end of the world.
FUA+eY
No.126198
>>126148(OP)
yaar kekda, what's your age?
my baap himself tried to gave me some and I did top tier acting of not knowing what it is
alcohol is the best nasha if done with class, moderation and good environment, not the chapri way,
although I scoff at fags who never tried it thinking it'll ruin their life, it does but have some balls and willpower
dYyNcF
No.126215
(jai bhim)?
do you earn ?
also dont pay heed to maa baap too much, many of them are too superstitious, it doesnt matter what they say.
dYyNcF
No.126216
>>126179
so much seethe over nothing, just kill yourself
9bPUqI
No.126228
Woah another update, it's properly going down at my house and my father is saying that (get ready for this) that I have done something equivalent of "raping my wife naked in the middle of the street with people watching" and "I have violated the modesty of my mother by drinking in front of her".
And that I am not allowed to go to college using any vehicles INCLUDING my father's cycle. And that he would give me 25 rupees daily to cover one way commute to my college. Shit, it's properly going down, I don't know what y'all think, I know you all blame me for doing this and maybe I made a mistake, but I don't think it's a colossal mistake or something.
He's saying other nasty stuff as well but I don't wanna share too much, as nobody would read it lol.
>>126198
I am 20. Bro, I am not even interested in drinking alcohol, I just took 3 spoons of it. Literally using a spoon.
>>126179
Tune sahi kaha.
>>126215
Brahmin, I know
Nope, I am still studying
I wish I was born as white in a white country so that I could move out and at least live paycheck to paycheck.
b+Ufmb
No.126229
>>126198
why do they all look so fucking trashy ? like, harijan basti degenrates that use murti visarjan as an excuse to get high and dance ?
PQpz+1
No.126234
>>126148(OP)
How are your parents so conservative? my father used to buy whisky and wine for my grandfather, kek. My parents literally gave me brandy to drink when I fell sick as a kid
FaBxzh
No.126235
>>126228
They wanna feel powerful because nobody respects them in real life. So they are taking it out on their son. This is a humiliation ritual. If you retaliate, then they will go down the itna padhaya likhaya, paal poss ke bada kiya aur tune ye sila diya rabbithole.
You are now trapped in one of the most well known elite pajeet parenting techniques which is to blow things out of proportion and then guilt trip the child when he points out the injustice. The only way to escape this trap is to secretly record them when they are berating you and saying things like "repuing the wife naked in street". Record it secretly and then send it to all of your family.
Watch this video, this guy does the same after years of abuse from his parents
dYyNcF
No.126236
>>126228
(edi) zada uchal mat (bch), baap se 2 shabd bole nhi jaate randve se paycheck to paycheck jiyega self loathing low esteem pajeet
FaBxzh
No.126242
>>126238
Yeah exactly. If he has such a problem against alcohol why doesnt he cut ties with his brother and his wife? Why the double standard.
rD+t+F
No.126245
>>126148(OP)
You're an idiot to do it while being dependent on him.
Now follow up and start a career in crime.
9bPUqI
No.126268
>>126245
Galti ho gayi yaar, yeh galti maaf nahi ho sakti kya, maine koi crime thori kiya hai yaar.
Okay guys what do I do now? Do I apologise right now or do I wait before apologising, knowing the nature of my father, he's going to start shouting again, and as I said earlier and as he >>126236 rightly pointed out that I am spineless, and I get legit panic attacks when he start shouting like the nerves at the fingers of my hand start tingling and I can literally hear my heart pound in my chest. Not sure what to do now, fuck my life man, I wish I was born smarter or something. Apparently he has decided to make me suffer by not allowing me to use transportation, taking whatever 2k or 3k rupees I have in my bank account out. Shit man, I don't know what went through my head, at that time, I was just thinking that three spoons would not be a big deal or something.
Okay bros, given that my father is literally irrational. He can kick me out and since I am 20, I am way over the legal age, what do I do if I get kicked out? I don't have any friends good enough to help me when they kick me out or something. Do I go to my uncle and aunt? I am afraid that they will believe my story and will not acknowledge that my dear father could do something like this. So if that happens I will be fucked in my own house and in my aunt's house. Man I am living life of such a cockroach. Wish that 'ordinary' jobs would pay well enough to live alone.
g8BFfZ
No.126325
>>126268
>Okay guys what do I do now?
Nothing. Tere father saab ne bhi isi age se start kiya hoga. Get some backbone nanhejeet. Act as if you don't care at all
jvhhjt
No.126341
>>126148(OP)
Sleep this off, pay it no mind, your father is a little retarded. It only gets to you because you let it get to it. I would not dare drink in front of my father despite being in 30's and working in a nice fucking MNC. But I was drinking with my uncle, as that is how that degree of respect work.
Your father is not obligated to enjoy the idea of his son drinking in front of him. How much is not relevant, you could say I only took a puff of cigg in his face, but you still did it. You don't need to apologise, you need to stop reacting. You need to go to your room, put earphones on, and carry on with the day.
Wait it out for 60 days to make sure forgets this. If he ever brings this up, call him out on his shit in public. Make sure the world knows he is not respected in his own home. You draw the line today, or the boundary will never exist once you grow up
jvhhjt
No.126342
>>126325
Literally this, it is that age when we all started. Don't clash against him, stop hating him for even acting like any father does. Stop being a bitch and just neglect it. It's a phase on his part, yaar, nanhe jeet ko samjhao, he will move on kek.
rD+t+F
No.126346
>>126268
I am usually not castist except to bait people here. But sometimes I wonder what community such people belong to.
Do you even fold when random strangers do chutiyapa?
Why overthink shit, get a job and start ignoring him till you can move out.
9bPUqI
No.126427
>>126346
I did not use to fold when random people did shit to me, but overtime my confidence has been wrecked and I have become a vegetable mentally and have constant brain fog. But now I am a submissive person, I can't help it, I have taken a lot of abuse and a lot of beatings from parents, teachers, relatives, and strangers which have made me what I am like today.
>>126342
>>126341
I do believe that I made a mistake, but i don't think that his reaction was proportional to my mistake at all, maybe he'll cool down but he's not the kind of the guy to cool down, he kicked me out when I was a kid like 14 years old over something trivial and a relative who is no longer alive took pity on me and let me stay in his house for a month and it took him a month to convince him to let me stay with him. And of course things are awkward at my house right now, I don't know how to react when I meet him while going to the kitchen, fridge, or another room. He's not your run of the mill baap, he's truly something else.
++iwdw
No.126441
>>126427
💀damn
++iwdw
No.126453
Though unless your grandfather/someone close to your father died of alcohol issues, there is probably some other reason your father is angry at you and this incident was just what caused the valve to burst
siCw4c
No.126460
>>126228
Talk to your uncle and explain what happened. Absolute state of Brahmins, kek.
siCw4c
No.126462
>>126453
Brahmins are just as bad as (auto-excised)s when it comes to alcohol.
siCw4c
No.126467
>>126242
He's a spineless cuck. Many such cases. If his uncle steps in, the situation will resolve, and OPs baap will shrink back meekly.
DE1vO/
No.126468
>>126148(OP)
How can one be this much of a Pussy
++iwdw
No.126469
>>126462
Damn, well all their kids drink alcohol and eat non-veg in secret so this will most likely solve itself by the next generation
9bPUqI
No.126470
>>126453
No one in my family has ever died of alcohol issues, because alcohol is considered a taboo, I mean he just said that I "violated the modesty of my mother", this sentence is too rough to translate to Hindi.
>>126453
I guess because I did not get any percentile in GayEE and I can't memorise stuff for crap. Probably that, and honestly he's frustrated with his own life so I guess there is that.
>>126460
You see the problem is, if I talk to my uncle, toh na main idhar ka rahunga na udhar ka rahunga, there is no guarantee that my uncle will believe and it might makes matter worse, so I am sitting back and taking it like the loser I have become.
9bPUqI
No.126472
>>126467
Nah man, he can't shrink back, he knows I am dependent on him and can't do anything, now if I was earning my own money then I would have dealt with all of this by myself.
siCw4c
No.126473
>>126470
>my uncle will believe
I think he might. Seems like a chill guy. He's also probably dealt with your baap's bullshit.
siCw4c
No.126475
++iwdw
No.126476
>>126470
>I guess because I did not get any percentile in GayEE
Memeexams ruining family relations.
Many such cases
9bPUqI
No.126483
>>126473
Well, the thing is he sides with my father a lot thinking that my father respects him, I wish I would've recorded what my father said about him. If I get kicked out of the house then I'll call him.
>>126475
Wait aren't IITians some sort of Gods worshipped by so much of our Indian Population, if it is over for them, then I guess I stand no chance.
>>126476
:(
siCw4c
No.126491
d7/zRS
No.126514
>>126483
Call him now you little bitch.
d7/zRS
No.126517
>>126427
>he kicked me out when I was a kid like 14 years old over something trivial and a relative who is no longer alive took pity on me
Should have reported it to police, yaar parents are being too retarded again. Paal nahi sakte to paida kyu karte hai ye bhadwe. Always go to the police if you are underage and kicked out of your house. Your parents have a legal obligation to you untill you are adult, if they can kick you out you are obligated to have them threatened by cops. The younger you are the better it is.
9bPUqI
No.126564
>>126491
>>126514
Not right now bro, not right now, let me wait, I already messed up by not recording my father when he was cursing out my uncle and aunt. I am still in college even though worthless as it is, I need to complete this degree to at least get a BPO job or something.
>>126517
I did, I literally went to a thana near my house and they laughed me out, saying "ab hum tumhare ghar ki baatein bhi suljhayenge kya haha", then I went to the relative.
g8BFfZ
No.126677
>>126564
>ab hum tumhare ghar ki baatein bhi suljhayenge kya haha",
Learn from this and beat your baap
dYyNcF
No.126924
>>126564
yaar, why are you so faggy, you aint go nothing to lose your baap is faggy, just tell your baap you aint going nowhere and you eat and shit in that house untill you start earning. yaar jeets here dont know how to and when to be aggressive against your maabaap.
