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My understanding of Indian dating scene
fj5dev
No.412529
Please don’t call this AI because I’ve been writing this over the few past days.
India is a largely patriarchal, conservative society. Women r not safe everywhere. So unlike the West, where dating is openly sexual and direct, in India, it is strongly discouraged because Indian society is a low trust society.
In India, there r a few metropolitan cities. These cities have a dating culture similar to the west. People r open, have flings situationships and one night stands, online dating is popular, the regular stuff. Majority Indians live in small cities which have a completely different culture as follows..
Approaching a woman directly to ask her out or asking for her number, is seen as cheap and the woman can be judged negatively for responding, in the worst case scenario, the woman may invite a crowd to socially punish the man or accuse him of disrespecting her honor. Even if she doesn't make noise, white knights will gather up to threaten or beat the crap out of you. Men and women dress up and go to malls, restaurant chains, or movies etc just to scope out babes/boys, but since they can't approach each other, they remained cockblocked (or pussyblocked) and return home, and spend time in fantasy.
In certain big universities, there is a more open culture within the boundaries of university where women and men are more open to dating. Urban cafes and restaurants allow men and women to accompany each other, whereas rural or even poorer urban areas raise an eyebrow if a young man and woman are seen together. PDA is strictly forbidden. Also, the average penis size in India is 4 to 5 inches, but since sexual relationships without marriage, and sex education aren't common, both men and women are very naive about each other's bodies. Nowadays, in urban areas, boys and girls rent rooms to have sex. Most people live with their parents, so live-in relationships r only possible when both partners live independently. Since India has a strong Ghazal, poetry, ishq (pure love), and folk culture, many people believe in the concept of true unconditional love that is seen as kind of abstract. But in urban areas, the view of relationships is more practical.
Excluding some urban centres, showing skin is not common. Women keep themselves covered, especially in much smaller cities and rural areas. Seeing the sight of a woman's legs is quite a sight for many, and can give men boners and those women a bad reputation.
India’s social landscape is not built for the usual dating tactics of the west. To get a chick, outside well developed cities, a man must be respectful and slowly win her trust (usually through fake promises of ishq and manipulation), being direct, confident, suave, or charismatic can read as cheap or predatory behaviour. Acting like the alpha male bad boy will lead to you becoming a social outcast because Indians expect politeness, respect, and care for the social norms. Acting like a bad bitch will lead to the same result, and it's actually much worse for women to act this way.
Indian movies romanticise stalking, not taking a no, and absolute persistence until the woman says yes to a relationship. If a hard rejection does come, movies romanticise self-sabotage by drinking, smoking, not working, longing for what has been lost, isolating and distancing yourself, writing/singing/listening to heart wrenching songs and poetry, in place of moving on. This leads many men to indulge in these behaviours and end up in trouble or ruining their lives. Indian films also promote simping very hard, which includes helping all women, offering your resources with nothing in return, showering her with over the top compliments, entertaining her by acting like a clown, fighting for the woman, and in some cases, helping her get with the man she loves. These sorta simp men end up getting used by clever girls.
Like mentioned before, universities have their own dating bubble. Once college is o
6DzByZ
No.412532
>>412529(OP)
OM RANDI RAKSHATI RAKSHITAHA
3Y0mA1
No.412534
>>412529(OP)
>India is a largely patriarchal, conservative society. Women r not safe everywhere. So unlike the West, where dating is openly sexual and direct, in India, it is strongly discouraged because Indian society is a low trust society.
GOBARBAIT ALERT
vTtO7h
No.412537
>>412529(OP)
>Once college is o
You're supposed to write the article first and copy paste it here later
imvOrL
No.412547
you dont know shit, kys now. saged
zVFe7p
No.412565
>>412529(OP)
>India is a largely patriarchal, conservative society. Women r not safe everywhere
wrong in assumption itself, you will be completely wrong in the conclusion too.
SypKke
No.412575
>>412565
Start banning reddit fags yaar dayoos.
u5+L9J
No.412598
>>412532
Kekek
