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RmvsHv

No.325

I know it's a gay and weird question but I've always been an outsider and never really had any true friends because I had hard time relating to people. Whenever I hear about those friendships which are "bhai ke liye jaan bhi dedunga" sorta, I can't help but wonder where do you even find such people? All the men I've met in my lifetime have been people whom I suspected to backstab me. Never really had someone who could lend me a shoulder. I often come across historical figures who always had some friend that was always there for them, I wish I had some bro.

Anonymous

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Z7fz9H

No.326

You get them during childhood or you never make them. Clg is worth a shot but everyone already have good friends by then. Very rare to get someone in adult life.

Anonymous

UN

jhKqjo

No.327

>>325(OP)

Brootal.

I got blackpilled on this subject when I was in 6th grade. I had a so called best friend with whom I shared the desk since 4th class.

Towards the end of class 6th, he got power in his eyes. So suddenly, one day he was with his 'chashma'. Since I never got powers neither anyone in my family had till then, I was quite excited and took off his glasses from behind. He put it back as I returned to him. Day goes by, we're fine.

Now when I come back to home

>3 missed calls already from his number

>I pick and say 'bhai itni baar call kyu karha, tujhe toh pata hai mai ghar late se pahunchta'

>His mother on the other side says 'anon tumne (let's say rahul) ka chashma kyu toda' (repeat 3 times)

>Mfw when I realised it might have broken when I pulled it out from behind.

>I hand up, go directly to his House, pay 800 rupya which I saved i don't remember how

>Bhosadpillsuccessfully.jpeg

>Never talk to him again.

Anonymous

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VkbLXa

No.328

be a dehati cause anyone who wants to do something in life wont come for you to help in life only dehati n1ggers have empty mind to worry about their yaar dost.

Anonymous

UN

jhKqjo

No.329

>>327

Anyone else has such experiences?

Anonymous

UK

+ANqzw

No.333

>>327

To lodu tu uska chashma todega to wo teri aarti utarega kya

Anonymous

IN

jFd/Ik

No.334

>>333

kek

Anonymous

UN

jhKqjo

No.335

>>333

>He didn't Tell me anything about it the whole day

>Two more people took off his glasses

>I don't remember correctly but doubt whether it was broken by me.

Anyways, it was just 800 i could have compensated easily. They acted like cheap people there. Many a times he broke my expensive toys, like a 2k rc helicopter but I didn't mind it

>Itna toh chlta hai

UN

8oD9vy

No.336

>>327

>800 ruppee glasses

Absolute state of poorfags. My glasses are like 7K.

Anonymous

RJ

jFd/Ik

No.337

>>325(OP)

idk, I just existed back in school and a bunch of people with nobody else naturally gravitated towards each other (including me)

If everyone in the room is a normie, Stacey or Chad you are out of luck

Thing is if you want good friends that don't drag you down and are like brothers, you need to have confidence in yourself that you're the shit and better than everyone else. Otherwise how else is someone going to give up their life for you if you are not worth it

Anonymous

UN

jhKqjo

No.339

>>336

Not just that kek, I used to gift him expensive thangs on his birthdays. Whenever I visited somewhere outstation during vacations i made sure to bring something for him.

Niga acting that way for a 800 rupees thang had me then 11 y old nanhajeet in shock.

ARYA

5A0E2b

No.340

>>325(OP)

friends are a roll of the dice anon.

if you're outgoing and chat up more people - you get more rolls of the dice.

I have had a few "true" friends, but it's really chance.

>what if I had sit somewhere else

>what if I was home sick that day

>what if x hadn't volunteered to show me around

>what if

it's fully, 100%, trvly random.

Anonymous

UK

+ANqzw

No.342

>>335

Nah then it's your fault. You should have asked your money back for him breaking your toys.

Anonymous

UN

jhKqjo

No.343

>>342

Trve, but I used to think like op as if he was my bhaichara friend.

Anonymous

UK

+ANqzw

No.344

>>325(OP)

There are no true friends. Aside from your cousins, it's like finding a needle in a earth size haystack.

AP

KBOgcb

No.346

>>325(OP)

it's a meme. doesn't exist irl.