/adv/ - Advice

How do I improve my social skills and persuade people efficiently

I think I have good enough vocabulary to never run out of substance but whenever I talk to somebody for some reason my tone is not what I want it to be

If I am running a good joke on someone, it never gets the same reaction when somebody else does the same joke because I use the most bland tone while telling it

I have read books about it, but they mostly focus on the substance of what you will be speaking but rarely focus on the tonal quality of the speech itself

I have tried being soft, tried being hard, but it never really hits right for the right moment

How do I become good at it anan?

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Who to emulate?

Who to larp to?

Are there any good examples or resources of some social fags who I can emulate?

I though seinfeld has a lot of substance to emulate to but later realised the difference between hindi and english is so different that it cannot be simply translated into hindi social guys

yaar just dont say things as if you are reciting something, also say what and how things come in your mind without much thinking. As far as resources just observer people you consider good at socialising in ur circle.

these are somethings, no books, no videos can teach you just gotta do it without thinking