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1c32FI
No.461209
It might sound funny, but this kind of is pinching me inside
>My grandma died back in October
>Now it's both mama and their family
>Chote mama is alone because his biwi lives with her parents, with the kid studying at school there at her maika (Not officially divorced but kind of like that)
So what happened is
>Bade mama's sasural side someone died
>So we visited, ate the bhoj
BTW THIS IS GAON DEHAT
<I jokingly asked, "Humare liye bhi thoda pack karwa dena kekekekekekek"
Since we live in a Tier 2 city, it is normal for us that whenever we visit them, they give us something while returning back with something from farm
<He literally switched to a serious voice tone and said "Tumhare loye kyon? Tumhare liye kyon?" and I kind of tried spinning it, but it didn't work, and I was left standing there with a poker face
He has never said anything like this before, and it was kind of a new experience for me
Always says something along the line, "Mere jijaji dono, ek ek car kharid ke show off kar rahe hain, mai bhi ek khareedonga Thar"
We never really showed off, but it seems like he's jealous
Feels like Mama ka ghar is no more a mama ka ghar, they have kids, and I've grown up, probably they(their family) will hate us now
WPx/0o
No.461253
>>461209(OP)
A lot of the times I avoid telling anything to my relatives. All of my cousins have Instagram and talk to each other regularly even though we're all at different places for higher studies. But I never kept up with relatives and their drama. Whenever I have to visit them, I just do the bare minimum of showing that I have to care. I don't do it because of any pressure, but because I feel bad about ignoring them and having a stone cold face at functions.
But yes, it's true. Most of your relatives all get jealous of you when your family buys a house/car. Can't help with that, can you?
1c32FI
No.461307
>>461253
>But yes, it's true. Most of your relatives all get jealous of you when your family buys a house/car. Can't help with that, can you?
What about those lovey dovey oooo bhanje ooooo didi relationship? Were all fake all this time?
WPx/0o
No.461320
>>461307
Can't really relate to that. We didn't really have a great relationship with our mama's side from beginning. It was all about, just attend the wedding, funeral , do the bare minimum and get back. But atleast, you've learnt your lesson. You felt hurt because you thought you were a big happy family and they didn't reciprocate upto that. But don't cut off your cousins just because your mama said something stupid to you, unless they're being fed some bs about your family by your mama.
Don't ask me how I know all that
